Graves of Joseph, Christina & Eric Di Salvia. Rookwood Cemetery, Sydney
Aug 2001
First up – Apologises to all, as I am running very late!
For this weeks prompt I wanted to take you to visit the grave of my paternal grandparents Joseph & Christina Lorna Di Salvia nee: Hastings.
By all family accounts these two loved each other deeply, although the family was hit with some very hard times. My dad once told me of the wonderful evenings he shared with his family when his father would play the violin and the rest of the family would join in with singing, playing the spoons and clapping.
Christina passed away at the young age of 48 years on 20 Apr 1935 and Joseph would live a further 21 years, eventually dying on 29 Nov 1956. Joseph missed his wife terribly and would place memorial notices in the paper for many years. He never re-married.
Joseph and Christina Di Salvia are buried together at Rookwood Cemetery in Sydney. Also buried with Joseph and Christina is their infant son Eric Joseph who died in Nov 1912 aged just 6 1/2 months. Obviously the family were not in a position to put a headstone on Eric’s grave at the time.
In August of 2001 my sister Noeleen Macintosh and I decided to go to the Rookwood Cemetery to try to find their plot. The cemetery is huge and I would have been lost in no time if it hadn’t been for my sister. Nonny had told me that she thought the graves were unmarked, and only had vague memories of visiting them once before. We did eventually find the plots, and I was surprised how very sad I felt, as I had actually never met these people. The small area, amongst many other old graves with headstones, felt lonely and a little unloved.
We left flowers as markers so as anyone who saw the area would know that the relatives who laid there were indeed loved and remembered. The purple flowers mark where Christina rests and the white flowers show where Joseph rests.
Source:
Headstone/Resting Place: Joseph & Christina Di Salvia nee: Hastings, Rookwood Cemetery, Sydney, New South Wales, Australia. Photographed by Julie Preston 4 Sept 2015
You must be logged in to post a comment.